tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post3917478159046020978..comments2023-06-14T10:02:09.079+02:00Comments on Egyptian FE-Mail: SOS – The Relationships Guru needs Help!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-37264173743284066272008-03-21T06:02:00.000+02:002008-03-21T06:02:00.000+02:00Well I responded (earlier) to your posting before ...Well I responded (earlier) to your posting before reading the comments and your reply to them. Regarding your response to the man in question: HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING YOU SAY. He will not be affected. He will not be moved, he will not reflect, he will not change. Why bother discussing this with him? Maybe it’s some sort of catharsis for you, but that is what friends, diaries and blogs are for. In fact it will be tantalizing fodder for his ego – my, he will think, she sure is biiiiiiiiiitter…<BR/><BR/>Why put him down? Why bother pointing out how enormously stupid he is? He doesn’t care about what you think of him. This is just a game – a big win for him if he sees how emotionally affected – and any type of attention (even negative) will be tantalizing fodder for his ego. I had hoped your response was a big happy smile, and a ‘not interested’. That’s it. No lecture, no criticizing, no judgements. No conversation. He doesn’t give a crap. This guy actually admires you – and any type of attention or reaction from you will actually lift his twisted spirits up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-44030447715996295532008-03-21T05:12:00.000+02:002008-03-21T05:12:00.000+02:00The man will take you back, it feeds his ego. He ...The man will take you back, it feeds his ego. He will discard you again.<BR/><BR/>If he let you go the first time, he will let you go again.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-59123077916836528462007-12-20T14:17:00.000+02:002007-12-20T14:17:00.000+02:00You see Vanilla .. he is not that type .... he wan...You see Vanilla .. he is not that type .... he wanted the OTV me .. the media connected me ... not the me that I really am .. he wanted to stick hoping that he would get some light on the gray wax in his ears ... all the advice crap was just an attempt to upgrade me to fit the wife image.Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-70126376577388980242007-12-20T12:27:00.000+02:002007-12-20T12:27:00.000+02:00I think it would be foolish of you to pass up such...I think it would be foolish of you to pass up such a wonderfully Louis Farrakhan type o'guy.<BR/><BR/>Think about it, you're strolling by the beach at dusk, you covered in a big black tablecloth looking like a Ninja, him in his shalwar kameez, sporting a huge loofah-beard contemplating how to make you a better muslimah, and how to get last night's dinner out of his beard. <BR/><BR/>You're not allowed to hold hands tho, that's grounds for stoning young lady. And I don't mean he'll take you back home & roll you a big spliff.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-62399657119567460152007-12-10T15:30:00.000+02:002007-12-10T15:30:00.000+02:00Ugghhhhh.. Marwa, you gotta be kidding me. WTF? Th...Ugghhhhh.. Marwa, you gotta be kidding me. WTF? This man is so damn sick.. He's green with envy. It is clear that he has got many issues to deal with before he could even think of giving advice to others.<BR/>Sorry for my late reply, you can never imagine how hectic my life is. But still I wanted to add my pence here. <BR/>You certainly rock, Marwa. I LOVED your reply to this rooster! This kinda men should face their reality.. and it takes a unique woman like you to bring them down to their actual sizes. They are senseless pigs!<BR/>20 years ago he must have been another person.. much more nicer of course. So I won't blame you for falling for him at such a young age. But those 20 years have added so much to you as a person, while taking so much from him apparently. He SUCKS big time! He thinks that he can bring you down by being a father figure or something! Why doesn't he go to father his kids for God's sake?!<BR/>Marwa, you are an inspiration to many girls. You are successful, charismatic and intelligent. Yet, who's the big zero, Mr. Nobody, who had balls to tell you such wicked stuff which ooze with his sickness??!<BR/>Damn.. Instead of only being rejected and dispised by you.. he ended up being the most notorious man in Egypt! And it serves him right. Great come back, dear.Fantasiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08461909070546227094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-69085198161877385722007-12-10T10:24:00.000+02:002007-12-10T10:24:00.000+02:00You have the infamous habit of over-analyzing ever...You have the infamous habit of over-analyzing everything; I'm afraid he'd eventually go mental, drained from trying or even quit the whole thing.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, Do u believe in math?<BR/>Negative + Negative = Positive<BR/>Damaged Psych + Ruined Psych= ?<BR/><BR/>You have a sincere chance to integrate yourself in a so called sacred bond, you have every right to be confused and none of us; bloggers - with apparently a lot of times in our hands - have something truly meaningful to suggest at this point of your life.<BR/><BR/>Good LuckMo'menhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17865365527055593221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-86856102545836006872007-12-10T02:29:00.000+02:002007-12-10T02:29:00.000+02:00Great so we do agree on the white coat and MB. Act...Great so we do agree on the white coat and MB. Actually I just posted my reply immediately after I had bumped into that article while surfing the web. When you let my comment through, I got curious and started reading more. Wanted to know about the site and a quick idea bout the person behind it. <BR/>I must say I've been around planet earth for quite a while and I can tell that you are truly one of a kind. Your character is rich with rare gems. Some obvious, others hidden, others deeply burried. <BR/>We just don't agree on the getting even part. I do agree that I wouldn't miss a chance to get even within let's say 3 months max. of breakup. But after 1 year indifference automatically kicks in for me. I think you would've been better off spending the time on something you'd enjoy. On the other hand had you done that we would've been deprived of the 'Vomit' masterpiece (loved it btw thanks for making me laugh).<BR/>Keep up the good work, good luck and may you be granted the fortune to meet a true Mr.Right and the wisdom to realize it at the right moment. There are plenty out there, hope the "Law of Attraction" works well for you pretty soon. Salamo 3aleiko and Happy Holidays!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-78184542003654405052007-12-09T12:19:00.000+02:002007-12-09T12:19:00.000+02:00Hello D:) First time on my blog?I have a sharp ven...Hello D:) First time on my blog?<BR/><BR/>I have a sharp vendictive streak, but like you, I have been trained on the "ditch, dump, and move on" routine. I just need to get even before I get going.<BR/><BR/>Since this post is driven by pure malice, I had to mock what he holds as his greatest achievements ... the coat and the car!! I also had to point out his marital status which he does not seem to think of as a drawback!<BR/><BR/>Elite? says who .... he was only attacted to the spotlights that are turning towards me now hoping for some light over his pathetic life.<BR/><BR/>I like your hypothetical example - he believes that as long as his "affairs" have a license then he is not betraying his wife.<BR/><BR/>LOL @ cheap soap:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-59479359336974532012007-12-09T07:53:00.000+02:002007-12-09T07:53:00.000+02:00The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference...The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. You shouldn't even bother to seek revenge. In any sort of 'romantic' relationship, once the other partner commits a crucial mistake that leads to the destruction of the relationship the best thing to do is just ditch, dump and move on. Never look back. Been there, done that a couple of times, to a point that I wouldn't even recognize the X. no grudges, no nothing, completely blank. So it IS doable. Just work on it, first time's a lil hard but then you get used to it aslong as your conscience is clear and you're sure it wasn't your fault.<BR/><BR/>As for the "This time my prince-charming is wearing a white coat and driving a Mercedes, with a Nokia bluetooth wireless headset that matches his Nokia N95 8Gb with GPS mobile" part...I really don't get the importance of mentioning that.<BR/>A white coat? Gimmie a break. Did you mean to imply that he's a vain fag? Or possibly he's a doctor that forgot to change his uniform prior to leaving his clinic? Egypt never even gets cold enough to justify wearing a coat.<BR/>As for the Benz, hmm I don't know, did you mean to imply that he's successful? Why didn't you add that his license plate was only 4 digits or had that tiny Eagle next to it so readers would 'phear' his eliteness. I know MBs are considered one of the trademarks of success here although I presonally prefer beemers, as they somehow get more 7areemers :D<BR/><BR/>Now take this hypothetical example. A pimp husband who forces his wife to sell her body to get him money. When/how can that woman be accused of committing adultery and betraying her husband? Well, if during having sex to her pimp husband she imagined some other client and started to get orgasms over that memory. He'd think she's gushing due to the current intercoarse he's having with her when in reality it's due to the day's job memories in her head. Moral here is that betreyal is a thought. It starts in your head and escalates from there. In my book, that fella was betraying his wife and kids. I fail to find a religion that would disagree that what he has done to some degree is a form of betrayal. Yet ironically he's preaching about religion. You should've asked him to save his tenderness and money that he had planned to set aside for his 'Extreme Makover' program to his kids.<BR/><BR/>To be fair, if he means business, he should divorce his wife, transfer sufficient funds to her account and to each one of his kids, and show you these documents. Only then would he be free to start thinking of any future plans for you or any other woman. Until he does so, cheap soap should be his only resort if he's unhappy with his wife. Yes, cheap soap, not even Vaseline, as money spent on that should rather go to his kids.<BR/>IMHO, apart from you standing naked and shivering infront of your readers...this whole story is "rakha kein" :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-66465504854276826132007-12-06T20:43:00.000+02:002007-12-06T20:43:00.000+02:00Hilarious..U think u could set me up for a date wi...Hilarious..<BR/>U think u could set me up for a date with him?<BR/>i mean im a guy but mayb he'll disregard that and love me for who i am..<BR/>aah unconditional love..<BR/>so rare, so precious..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-9423017786345341792007-12-05T21:31:00.000+02:002007-12-05T21:31:00.000+02:00Wow...I can't believe it...I really took it very S...Wow...I can't believe it...I really took it very SERIOUS though i was astonished !<BR/><BR/>It is really interesting 2 get 2 know how different people think and / or Re-act...<BR/><BR/>Good Teasing Game...Well done !<BR/><BR/>Cheers Woman ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-49214430915652220822007-12-05T21:26:00.000+02:002007-12-05T21:26:00.000+02:00Wow...I can't believe it...I really took it very S...Wow...I can't believe it...I really took it very SERIOUS though i was astonished !<BR/><BR/>It is really interesting 2 get 2 know how different people think and / or Re-act...<BR/><BR/>Good Teasing Game...Well done !<BR/><BR/>Cheers Woman ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-703948154681130942007-12-04T15:31:00.000+02:002007-12-04T15:31:00.000+02:00One day our paths will cross FidodidoOne day our paths will cross FidodidoMarwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-85431500674822876602007-12-04T13:51:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:51:00.000+02:00this is marwa the fighter girl that i know her thr...this is marwa the fighter girl that i know her through her articles and really want to meet her one day in real life :D. i like the part "Any serious commitment is out of the question ... I do not need/want anything you might have to offer." welcome back guru girl:DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-35316050697282818832007-12-04T13:46:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:46:00.000+02:00Ghada Massoud, Wala, Marwa Kamel, Lamia, Becky ......Ghada Massoud, Wala, Marwa Kamel, Lamia, Becky .... Old habits die hard ... and I guess I am not done with the sarcasm yet:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-67961941851589159592007-12-04T13:44:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:44:00.000+02:00Ahmed ... time? Give it some time? What for? once ...Ahmed ... time? Give it some time? What for? once a jerk always a jerk!!!Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-35268156826865377412007-12-04T13:43:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:43:00.000+02:00Amr .. you are as sweet as ever ... never let appe...Amr .. you are as sweet as ever ... never let appearances fool you:) <BR/><BR/>Love ends, youth fades away, people come and go ... but self respect and esteem last for as long as you allow them to last.<BR/><BR/>Marry him? Am I out of my mind?!!!Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-79401347995501117482007-12-04T13:40:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:40:00.000+02:00Ramzi:) You can't tell when I am being wicked and ...Ramzi:) You can't tell when I am being wicked and nasty:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-40817914009965362782007-12-04T13:39:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:39:00.000+02:00Kantylis, Strawberry, Pink Unicorn, Dina Kozman, N...Kantylis, Strawberry, Pink Unicorn, Dina Kozman, Nova .... sigh ... I could not resist the urge to chew and spit:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-69478877049294227922007-12-04T13:37:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:37:00.000+02:00Oh Amanda .. thank you so much for taking the time...Oh Amanda .. thank you so much for taking the time to write me this extensive email and for sharing with me your own experiences. I wrote before about Egyptian men and what they "do to" foreign girls ... it was a very sad article.<BR/><BR/>As for this guy .... I have crossed him out the moment he began judging .. I sensed his inferiority complexes and insecurity. I intimidated him so he had to crush me into little pieces hoping that I would give in to his arrogant self.<BR/><BR/>This article is my wicked way of getting back at him. I will let people tell him who he really is:)<BR/><BR/>xxxMarwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-13004007234499058612007-12-04T13:35:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:35:00.000+02:00Zeiny:)I am so happy and delighted that you are re...Zeiny:)<BR/><BR/>I am so happy and delighted that you are responding to my SOS:)<BR/><BR/>But did you really think it was and SOS? (wicked wink)<BR/><BR/>It was my way of kicking his ass and of making him feel like the worthless piece of shit he is .... my friends and the people who know me will slap his muddy face on my behalf:)<BR/><BR/>xxxxx I love youMarwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-52610258088806889612007-12-04T13:33:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:33:00.000+02:00Judish .. thank you for all your comments and quot...Judish .. thank you for all your comments and quotes ... I love tha one .. I could not have written it better:<BR/><BR/>"Men are cruel. Very cruel. There is no justice in this world. And, no equality between men and women. Don't believe that a marriage alters that balance. Sometimes it only makes it worse. Power lies with the purse - remember that. Whoever controls that, controls the relationship. When you review your own marriage, you will realize the truth of what I am saying. The only difference is that some men can control their true feelings of superiority. These men are called "cultured". Other men display them openly. They make their wives feel under constant obligation. That is the best way to keep them suppressed."Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-16009514615376980462007-12-04T13:11:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:11:00.000+02:00KN ... you are even more wicked than I am:)KN ... you are even more wicked than I am:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-47985144247364351662007-12-04T13:07:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:07:00.000+02:00Nile Girl .... come on ... did you even have a shr...Nile Girl .... come on ... did you even have a shred of doubt?;)<BR/><BR/>Ghada ... love the enthusiasm .. hope he reads your comment:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-34447113018683449642007-12-04T13:06:00.000+02:002007-12-04T13:06:00.000+02:00Will e .... I did not know you stopped by:) trick ...Will e .... I did not know you stopped by:) <BR/><BR/>trick question indeed;)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.com