tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post8428541841576585746..comments2023-06-14T10:02:09.079+02:00Comments on Egyptian FE-Mail: What is an Emotional Void? With that question she surprised me!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-69938685349545097662009-11-09T00:43:34.643+02:002009-11-09T00:43:34.643+02:00This blogpost was written a long tme ago as was Je...This blogpost was written a long tme ago as was Jewel's response it lit a lightbulb in my head, I thank you! Now to kicking this void's arse...Mental Healthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18316699360364058637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-28550817594740611802007-03-25T00:58:00.000+02:002007-03-25T00:58:00.000+02:00My opinion regarding an emotional void is comparab...My opinion regarding an emotional void is comparable to someone who is <BR/>unable to neither express emotions nor convey it to others…When it comes to <BR/>emotions, you are like a fountain of eternal water filled with all sorts of <BR/>rushing emotions which I can decipher just by reading your blogs…<BR/>I do share the same view regarding failed relationships…When a relationship <BR/>ends…I think: “another waste of my precious time as my biological clock <BR/>ticks away”…At times, I feel like a boxer who has received several punches <BR/>straight in the gut…but still standing yet feeling the gut wrenching pain <BR/>and hurt of rejection, deception and failed expectancy (my own of course!). <BR/> What pain and time have taught me is that you have to segregate things <BR/>and just move on to the next…Time is the healer of all wounds no matter how <BR/>deep…<BR/>Easy to say but with determination, perseverance and armed with a courageous <BR/>will, you can do it!<BR/>I have learned to segregate the different parts of my life in several <BR/>compartments although they are interrelated in many ways too:<BR/>1. work compartment<BR/>2. friends compartment;<BR/>2.1. girl friends<BR/>2. 2. male friends:<BR/>2.2.1. just friends<BR/>2.2.2.friends who may qualify to be potential husbands***<BR/>3. family compartment<BR/>4. emotions compartment : love, anger, disgust, joy, fear, sadness, <BR/>surprise, courage, dejection, desire, despair, hate, hope, happiness, <BR/>sorrow, anxiety, contempt, guilt, shame, grief, rage, elation, pleasure, <BR/>wonder, expectancy…<BR/>5. wishes and dreams to accomplish<BR/><BR/>In order to minimize my deceptions and avoid increasing the depth of that <BR/>emotional void which you describe, I have decided to be friends with the <BR/>males before entering into any kind of intimate relationship. The other way <BR/>around has proven to be very unsuccessful…It is hard enough to get along <BR/>with someone and when you add that extra component of intimacy, it <BR/>complicates the equation…As the friendship evolves, and it does not spring <BR/>overnight unfortunately for my ticking clock, you then realize if you can <BR/>spend the rest of your life with someone or not thus avoiding any further <BR/>disappointments. Of course, there are no guaranties (too bad!) that it will <BR/>work out, but at least I would have given it my best shot!<BR/><BR/>As for the unfulfilled fantasy, or dream, if it includes settling down with <BR/>the right person and having children, it is more difficult to fulfill <BR/>because you do not have full control over that fantasy since there is <BR/>another party involved whose will affects the outcome.<BR/><BR/>Whereas a work related fantasy, or a personal challenge set fourth by you, <BR/>is easily fulfilled if will and determination are present since you have <BR/>control over that.<BR/><BR/>I do believe that you are your own healer..only you can fill that emotional <BR/>void, it should never be reliant on someone’s else behavior towards you…You <BR/>are the Master of your own destiny and creator of your state of being.<BR/><BR/><BR/>The JewelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-77458306461750626492007-03-21T21:52:00.000+02:002007-03-21T21:52:00.000+02:00a friend once told me, you can never fill the empt...a friend once told me, you can never fill the emptiness in you with food, how true. it only fills the tummy, but the heart will feel heavier. unfortunatly i discovered that after reaching the 120 markAskandaranihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04897382615947308685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-90933977286158085422007-03-21T16:44:00.000+02:002007-03-21T16:44:00.000+02:00Do you know of anyone who doesn't have that emotio...Do you know of anyone who doesn't have that emotional void? I can think of a few things that might fill that void:<BR/><BR/>- a life of purpose<BR/>- strong faith<BR/>- someone you love<BR/><BR/>That's just what I can think of right now... Good topic though.MechanicalCrowdshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03303109033035908703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-54259291370723861672007-03-20T21:32:00.000+02:002007-03-20T21:32:00.000+02:00love, dust, sand-M-call me or Y/coffee?/take care....love, dust, sand-M-call me or Y/coffee?/take care...J-yes-it is me. Nice work!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com