tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post8715044191210964304..comments2023-06-14T10:02:09.079+02:00Comments on Egyptian FE-Mail: Marry Me ... Please!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-2362928332290681712007-04-12T22:16:00.000+02:002007-04-12T22:16:00.000+02:00Christina, your comment reminded me of a quote I r...Christina, your comment reminded me of a quote I read before:<BR/><BR/>"Some of us are becoming the men we wanted to marry." -- Gloria SteinhemMarwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-18713739878281852402007-04-12T20:34:00.000+02:002007-04-12T20:34:00.000+02:00Funny post - I can totally relate.....as if I woul...Funny post - I can totally relate.....as if I would have written it myself!<BR/>It's not about getting a man, it's more about getting on with your life and doing what will make you shine and feel free. You've proven yourself, you've been the man, now you want someone else to carry the torch.Cristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10798778127483331543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-45687605434100718922007-04-06T20:34:00.000+02:002007-04-06T20:34:00.000+02:00Hello Eyad,I am flattered that you make time to re...Hello Eyad,<BR/><BR/>I am flattered that you make time to read my posts:)<BR/><BR/>You are so right about everything you said about me and advised me.<BR/><BR/>I will tell you what I tell my mom and dad ... I will always be me ... impulsive, rebellious, angry, and at times, self destructive.Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-64998205666642670682007-04-05T10:35:00.000+02:002007-04-05T10:35:00.000+02:00Unfortunately I missed that class too, I had to le...Unfortunately I missed that class too, I had to learn it the hardway trial and error.<BR/>I agree imperfections are noticed through mind's rationality and through a process of comparison. we always look at somebodies' else dish and wish we had the same as we are looking at our own.<BR/>Love will make you ignore the existance of imperfections and accept what you have in your dish.<BR/>This applies to both genders.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-80685605673158897602007-04-03T14:43:00.000+02:002007-04-03T14:43:00.000+02:00Dear Miss Courage in Person,I do have a small anal...Dear Miss Courage in Person,<BR/><BR/>I do have a small analysis for your problematic interpretation of the other gender,<BR/><BR/>First: I do not believe there is no single Mr. Right passed around your balcony and threw flowers. From your "if" list, I can say – and forgive my direct approach – you do not clearly know what can make you happy. For me in simple words, if you can keep the capacity surprising him, and if he can keep the capacity impressing you in public & indulging you in private, you are both happy. <BR/><BR/>Second: if 70 men will fear your talents and charisma, 30 will appreciate it. If 80 will be unable to get through your maze, 20 can easily do it. If 70 men needed a plain girl, 30 are dreaming of your character and can handle it. Go and fish in the deep water to get the Jumbos.<BR/><BR/>Third: Lower your temper Marwa, lovers' interpretation is not a SWOT analysis. Marriage is not a co-promotion agreement, getting in love is not a launch campaign.<BR/><BR/>Fourth: You can enjoy a hot loaf of bread, only if you did not hold a pin and paper analyzing the amount of carbohydrates, mineral salts…..etc in it until it is cold and tasteless. Asking why? Who? When? Sometimes is a life saving. But all-time it is a life running techniqueAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-44613754758029098002007-03-31T14:19:00.000+02:002007-03-31T14:19:00.000+02:00Do you have material on compromise?:) I am sure I ...Do you have material on compromise?:) I am sure I missed that day in school.<BR/><BR/>Imperfections are only spotted through the ruthless lens of the mind .... it takes love to accept them, and this is where I fall short.Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-51146682670568443712007-03-31T13:50:00.000+02:002007-03-31T13:50:00.000+02:00Marwa, what a change in behavior, let me tell you ...Marwa, what a change in behavior, let me tell you that marriage is an ongoing negotiation that will lead to a lot of compromises and win win situation. you have to ask yourself what are you also willing to give to Mr perfect who is going to accomodate your ifs of today as well as those of tomorrow. hwo much imperfections are you willing to accept because as you approach the green grass on the other side you will notice from a closer perspective how imperfect it is.<BR/>Life is full of compromises ther is nothing perfect, but imperfection can be accepted. In life everything has a price to pay there is nothing free and as I heard it several times there is no such thing as a free meal.<BR/>good luckAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-51785114580923194052007-03-31T11:18:00.000+02:002007-03-31T11:18:00.000+02:00Hey SandMonkey .. had i not known better, I would ...Hey SandMonkey .. had i not known better, I would have thought you were aiming a blow beneath the belt.<BR/><BR/>It is not a question of what I want or what I need - or even what I deserve ... let me put it this way ... I expect to take exactly what I am willing to give, this is why I find that everything I "demand" in a man is justifiable.Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-46094605692980149282007-03-31T09:30:00.000+02:002007-03-31T09:30:00.000+02:00The question isn't what you want in a man Marwa, n...The question isn't what you want in a man Marwa, nor is it what you need in one. It's what you deserve in one. We are always yelling and screaming about what we need and what we want, and we always ignore the what we deserve part.<BR/><BR/>The question is, looking back at your life and who you were and who you are and all that is you, well, what exactly do you deserve?<BR/><BR/>Also ask yourself, if you decide in a moment of vanity that what you deserve is truely the perfect man, the question becomes: Is that what you really want? Someone Perfect? Are you really looking for a mate or a trophy? you know, someone to brag about or someone to lay down your burdens on his shoulders?<BR/><BR/>Which is it?The Sandmonkeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01976533000897501165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-79027615094992667312007-03-27T17:22:00.000+02:002007-03-27T17:22:00.000+02:00She who hesitates is lost, in a swamp of hypotheti...She who hesitates is lost, in a swamp of hypothetical what if's. <BR/><BR/>The perfect man is an ideal, not reality. The perfect woman, one in the same. <BR/><BR/>Our pursuit of eudaimonia, is hampered by our preferential pleonexia. <BR/><BR/>Alas Marwa, live life, rather than pondering it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-56248598278471540782007-03-27T12:24:00.000+02:002007-03-27T12:24:00.000+02:00Breath .. you touched a soft spot! I know for sure...Breath .. you touched a soft spot! I know for sure that when the man who meets my "ifs" comes, I will work hard to find more "ifs" that he will not be able to meet, then I will have another excuse to keep running ... sad but true!Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-33395479993174344942007-03-27T12:22:00.001+02:002007-03-27T12:22:00.001+02:00Hello S:)I stayed home:)Hello S:)<BR/><BR/>I stayed home:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-21243295184525384682007-03-27T12:22:00.000+02:002007-03-27T12:22:00.000+02:00Ya nilegirl ... the grass is always greener on the...Ya nilegirl ... the grass is always greener on the other side because we are distant; we are too far to see it's imperfections and flaws.<BR/><BR/>PS There is no perfect man:)Marwa Rakhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01667215746872413429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-29221379864925931432007-03-27T09:49:00.000+02:002007-03-27T09:49:00.000+02:00Hello Marwayou stated alot of IF's....but the real...Hello Marwa<BR/><BR/>you stated alot of IF's....but the real question is do you think if someone showed up and he fullfilled all of those IF's would you fall for him?Actually when someone fall in love with another does he/she know why?<BR/>I always had this debat in my mind....there is what you wish for,that you think it will make you happy if you have it and there is what happens in real life. I am old fashion and imaginary in this point....if you will fall for someone you will just fall regardless of anything else and it kind of happened with me, the whole thing was completly different of how i imagined it but it was nice and i was happy for a while...until i got hurt:) but it is ok i learned that too much fantasy can damage your reality...daydreaming is OK but don't gorget to wake up and enjoy your coffee...you will enjoy it although its bitter tasteBreathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11656933914897087353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-63168061706248076092007-03-27T07:52:00.000+02:002007-03-27T07:52:00.000+02:00know it it is rather silly, but that day. did you ...know it it is rather silly, but that day. did you go to work or stayed home?Askandaranihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15194437260891065442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4315763341062590496.post-47135331494580152902007-03-27T06:19:00.000+02:002007-03-27T06:19:00.000+02:00The grass is always greener... Unless you marry th...The grass is always greener... Unless you marry the perfect man for you, the one that can handle all your "if's", you're FAR better off with no ring on your finger; or it'll feel like a ring around your neck!<BR/><BR/>But seriously, why is the grass always greener?! Haga neela!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com