One particular post about Egyptian women getting married to foreign men caught my attention.
In her post about The Whores, Ghawayesh starts by saying:
"Times are changing and many ‘respected' families have come to accept the fact that their daughters can make their own choices of choosing to marry whoever they want, if they EVER CHOOSE to marry, which is also a new trend in Egypt."
She then explains an interesting fact about the psyche of Egyptian males who falsely believe
"that they are superior to males of other nationalities. When an Egyptian male opts for a foreign wife, then he's a winner and a stud and God's gift to her and she should be so thankful for his eternal tantrums and malignant ego. And their children are the most beautiful in the whole wide extended family only because their mommy is Blondie and so they are!"
Marwa, i'm sorry but I don't understand your post. First you start off with egyptian women marrying foreign men, then you say in her post about the whores.. does that mean she called them whores? or you are calling them whores? or was she talking about something entirely different? Then you don't actually say anything about women who marry foreign men, only the men who marry foreign women, so i dont exactly understand the whole thing.
ReplyDelete-Dina
Hello Dina:)
ReplyDeleteYou need to read the whole thing to understand the post but to answer your question ... this is a post about Egyptian women who married non Egyptian western men.
Ghawayesh wrote a post titled the whores ... this is what many EGyptian mothers, men, families, and common people call an Egyptian girl who is dating a foreigner.
If you read the whole thing, you will notice that she is making fun of the logic of those who called her a whore because she married a foreign guy then she lists the cutural issues when the foreign man meets the Egyptian parents ... and then the post goes on:)
Arab women would be better served if they themselves decide to marry whom they want. Unfortunately, they are not allowed to do so.
ReplyDeleteIf they were given a chance to decide on their own, even in cases where the "prefered" husband is muslim (hand picked by their tyranical families and fucked up culture) I would predict that they would refuse such bargain.
The sad state is that women are second class human beings even in within their own family unit. They lie to them, deceived them, and tell them that they love them only to put them in the end in their "place". This culture is trully mysogynistic to the core.
Thus calling a women a whore just because she married a foreigner is trully a testament to their fucked up backwardness and stupidity.
I am an Algerian Ex-muslim (living in US Thank God) who have a highly educated older sister who had the opportunity to marry a French teacher in 1970's but the parents refused- We know why. Now she is living a wreched unhappy and slave life- with a so called educated algerian- a life full of verbal violence, trickery and hate.
What a waist.
Zaki
I am so sorry for your sister Zaki ... thing is ... we have some good men in our countries but with the rotten majority, those good men do not stand out
ReplyDeleteلو جوزها مش مسلم –او اسلم في الظاهر بس وهي عارفه كده وهي مسلمة طبعا تبقي هور وبتش لان المسلمة ماينفعشي تتجوز واحد مش مسلم وتبقي زنا والي بيزني يبقي مش محترم راجل ولا ست وعلشان متقوليش ده عامل فيها شيخ انا مش محترم وعارف نفسي بس انا مش غبي علشان ما اعرفشي ان طالما ربنا قال حاجة حرام ومش بترضيه عن السكس او اي حاجة فتبقي مش محترمه ومش كداب علشان اكدب واقول لا الي يزني يبقي محترم والي يقبل حاجة زي دي يبقي مش محترم هو كمان وكمان لو هي مسيحية وجزاها مش شرعي عندهم يبقي معاهم حق فيها برضة
ReplyDeleteانا متعاطف مع اخت زكي وربنا معاها وفيه اغبياء كتير فاهمين الدين غلط او مش بتعامل بيه اصلا بس تفتكري لو كانت اتجوزت الراجل الفرنش ولا ده كانت هتبقي سيعدة يمكن اه ويمكن لا والضرب واهانة الستات والتحرش هناك زينا واكتر بس انا متاكد انه لو مش مسلم عمرمها ماهتبقي سيعدة معاه حتي لو اتوهمت كده ولازم تبقي حياتها زفت اصل الزنا لازم اخرته زفت
بس ليه مش متعاطفة ولا زعلانة علي اكبر مصيبة تبقي في حياة انسان زكي المرتد الكافر تفتكر هتبقي سيعد لامتي يا زكي ؟!! طبعا انت حر محدش هيجبرك تتغير ياتري بعد عشرة او ميت سنة هتقول ايه
لو جوزها مش مسلم –او اسلم في الظاهر بس وهي عارفه كده وهي مسلمة طبعا تبقي هور وبتش لان المسلمة ماينفعشي تتجوز واحد مش مسلم وتبقي زنا والي بيزني يبقي مش محترم راجل ولا ست وعلشان متقوليش ده عامل فيها شيخ انا مش محترم وعارف نفسي بس انا مش غبي علشان ما اعرفشي ان طالما ربنا قال حاجة حرام ومش بترضيه عن السكس او اي حاجة فتبقي مش محترمه ومش كداب علشان اكدب واقول لا الي يزني يبقي محترم والي يقبل حاجة زي دي يبقي مش محترم هو كمان وكمان لو هي مسيحية وجزاها مش شرعي عندهم يبقي معاهم حق فيها برضة
ReplyDeleteانا متعاطف مع اخت زكي وربنا معاها وفيه اغبياء كتير فاهمين الدين غلط او مش بتعامل بيه اصلا بس تفتكري لو كانت اتجوزت الراجل الفرنش ولا ده كانت هتبقي سيعدة يمكن اه ويمكن لا والضرب واهانة الستات والتحرش هناك زينا واكتر بس انا متاكد انه لو مش مسلم عمرمها ماهتبقي سيعدة معاه حتي لو اتوهمت كده ولازم تبقي حياتها زفت اصل الزنا لازم اخرته زفت
بس ليه يا مروة مش متعاطفة ولا زعلانة علي اكبر مصيبة تبقي في حياة انسان زكي المرتد الكافر تفتكر هتبقي سيعد لامتي يا زكي ؟!! طبعا انت حر محدش هيجبرك تتغير ياتري بعد عشرة او ميت سنة هتقول ايه