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Thursday, July 31, 2008

Global Voices Online - Roundup

GLOBAL VOICES - MARWA RAKHA

Not Guilty: Egypt's Ferry Disaster

On February 3, 2006 Al-Salam ferry sank in the middle of the Red Sea killing more than 1,000 people who were coming to Safaga, Egypt from Saudi Arabia. The passengers were mainly Egyptian workers in Saudi Arabia, who were returning home on vacation or who were bringing their savings home to retire in their homeland. The Egyptian criminal court has found the owner of a Red Sea ferry and four others not guilty of manslaughter.

The families of the victims as well as Egyptian bloggers were shocked and angered.

Wandering Scarab, in "The Dreaded Ferry" wrote:

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Egypt Silences the Voice of Iran

On July 24th, Maggie Michael reported:

Egyptian authorities shut down the Cairo office of an Iranian TV network, a security official said Thursday, as the two nations spar over a film that justifies the killing of former Egyptian President Anwar Sadat by Islamic militants.

Blogger Dina Ayoub in her post Egypt vs Iran takes us back to the time when President Sadat signed the peace treaty with Israel:

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Egypt: A Man's Views on Sexual Harassment

Emotional Deficit. For several decades, the Egyptian society was being Islamized, making the chances of having a natural and healthy pre-marriage boy-girl relationship ever diminishing. Marriage itself, it would seem is becoming more unaffordable than ever. The average age for marriage in Egypt for men has consistently increased. It is normal to see someone who is thirty years old who still has a few years to go before he can afford to provide the extensive requirements for marriage. In many cases, a young male in Egypt had to travel to the Gulf and work for a few years "building his fortune" to be able to afford the hefty burdens of marriage. Knowing that boys probably reach puberty at the age of 13 or 14, this means that a male in Egypt will spend some twenty years suffering from this emotional and "physical" deficit.

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Mourning A Sexually Harassed Egypt - Part 2

Reuters published survey on sexual harassment in Egypt is still stirring angry responses from Egyptian bloggers.

In her post titled "Shame and Sexual Harassment in Egypt", Mona Eltahawy took a trip back in time and visited her early experiences with sexual harassment:


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Mourning a Sexually Harassed Egypt

Dina - now living in Vancouver - remembers what every Egyptian woman identifies with saying

There's this look in an Egyptian man's eyes that makes me want to poke his eyes out, mutilate his body parts, and then kill him. A psychotic, undressing, invasive and violating look. A look so disgusting that it makes me shiver in my own skin, and wish that the earth would just swallow me up to cover me from it. A look so filthy, that you can see the virtual assault on you in his sleazy eyes. I hate that look so much.

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The Victimization of Egyptian Women and Children

In a not-so-rare scenario in Egypt, the man has the right to beat his wife and children as much and as severely as he wishes and no criminal charges can be filed against him - unless one of them dies as a result of this beating. Why?

"Because some crazy sadistic men have claimed that this is an authorized tool for disciplining a man's wife and children in Islam! Which is absolutely not true" explains the infuriated Fantasia.

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From the Diary of a Sinister Egyptian Spinster

Back in March 2008, Eman Hashim wrote a post [Ar] questioning why do Muslim Egyptian women need a "wakeel" - a man who has to sign her off to her husband. Let me give you a bit more insight here: unlike western cultures where the father gives away the bride as a jest of his approval and blessing, in Islam the marriage is "flawed" if the father, or the uncle if the father is deceased, has to speak on the bride's behalf through out all the paperwork and marriage procedures. Many sheikhs frown upon the thought of a girl - especially one who has never been married before and who is supposedly a virgin - marrying herself away.

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Walk Like an Egyptian ... Marry Like an Egyptian

One particular post about Egyptian women getting married to foreign men caught my attention.

In her post about The Whores, Ghawayesh starts by saying:

"Times are changing and many ‘respected' families have come to accept the fact that their daughters can make their own choices of choosing to marry whoever they want, if they EVER CHOOSE to marry, which is also a new trend in Egypt."

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"Beware of Egyptian Men," says the Canadian Embassy

Wandering Scarab - an Egyptian girl living in Canada - prior to her last visit to Egypt, decided to visit the Canadian Consulate website to register with the consulate in Egypt just in case her Canadian husband or her baby girl needed assistance with travel or local authorities. What she read on the site was appalling and ended up in her writing this post.

Women, particularly foreign women, are frequently subject to unpleasant male attention, sexual harassment, and verbal abuse. This often takes the form of staring, inappropriate remarks, catcalls, and touching. The Department publishes a booklet entitled Her Own Way: A Woman's Guide to Safe and Successful Travel. Its prime objective is to inform Canadian women and encourage them to travel safely.

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Obama's ripple effect on the Egyptian blogosphere - Part 1

Politics is not my thing but this was too good to resist. When I came across Wael Nawara's writings I knew that I stumbled on a goldmine. In his post - Too Secular to Win? - Wael asked four tough questions that left his readers wondering: What is the world coming to? Where is Secular America? When did people stop thinking that a person's religion is their own business? Can Obama, if he ever wins, try to help change that? Help pick our world from these trends of rising religious-mania ... starting with the US? But will he ever win?

Wael started his post by citing an average American woman who was interviewed on CNN saying:

"I do not trust him (Obama) he is a Muslim ..."

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Obama's ripple effect on the Egyptian blogosphere - Part 2

Moving from Secularism and diversity to the Rantings of a Sandmonkey on Why Obama will Fail;

"In my house , right now, I have the electoral programs for both Obama and McCain, and reading them has provided me with hours of constant amusement. McCain's program is under the impression that the world is great and everything is fine and dandy, and all we really have to do is to bomb a couple more areas in the world (a bomb here, a couple there) and all will be well with the world again. I personally love it, but that's because I am Pro-Death and would welcome anything that would bring the world's population down a notch, but I doubt the rest of you exactly share my sentiment, so, ehh, yeah, bad electoral program, bad!"


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Monday, July 28, 2008

Believe

With the power of my thoughts I summoned you;
With a blink I made you vanish.

On a dark trip your spirit shall wander
and as it gets darker you shall believe in me.

Ungrateful creature, I am your heaven and haven;
Ingratitude is a sin, and sinners live an eternity in hell.

In mazes of confusion your spirit shall wander;
In utter darkness demons of the past shall haunt you;

Of happiness you are incapable
then you shall dwell in misery and isolation.

Have I not tried to befriend you?
Have I not held you and healed you?

But alas, you are just another ungrateful creature;
Reside in darkness and dwell in fear .. I thee curse.

Know me or know me not ... I am a collector;
for when you were not looking,
in your core, I planted my seed.

Before you know it,
I shall grow in your soul
like a leafy tree of a hundred years.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

The Washing Machine

A washing machine I am;
come touch my buttons
and see me spinning.

Shirts, pants, undies, and more;
get that sock off the floor;
you are all but one when the night befalls.

Big or small;
size doesn't matter;
it always has a stain.

Colored or plain;
they always complain
about the suds or the care.

Watch my door open
only to close again;
let me wash away your pain.

Who cares who's inside;
I will be empty again.
Are you leaving while I am spinning?

I am the washing machine.
I am full! I am loaded!
I have had it!

Let me tell you this and mark my words;
Life revolves around me,
it only stops when I cease to be!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Hail thee ostrich land - new Egyptian media censorship law coming up!

I got an email from my friend Tamer El Meehy saying "Do something!" as he forwarded me a copy of the draft of the new Egyptian law of audio-visual transmission and monitoring the internet. In plain English, Egyptian Big Brother Anas Al-Fiqi, Minister of Media, decided that we Egyptians are not grown up enough to handle satellite channels and the world wide web. The proposed law is designed to help us bury our heads further in the sand of the Pharaohs.

Al Masry Al Youm Newspaper reported: The law was originally proposed by Cairo and Riyadh last February, and was rejected by Lebanon, Qatar, UAE and Bahrain last June for the reason of restricting the freedom of speech and opinion. The legislators of the draft law indicated in their introductory memorandum that establishing an authority to organize the audio and visual transmission is intended to stop airing live programs to the public that could threaten the public order and morals, thereby leading to disturbance of the country's safety and security.

The law stirred resentment in the enlightened Egyptian blogosphere and within the liberal circles. Wael Nawara wrote a brilliant post {AR} refuting the notion of censoring Egyptian minds and initiated a campaign on facebook calling for "Free Media" in Egypt. The slogan of the campaign is "Against Gagging Egypt!" In his post Wael described the Egyptian Ministry of Media as a Pagan Temple and Anas Al-Fiqi as the head of its priests who

kindly granted Egyptians the valuable gift of a new censorship body that will be
in charge of monitoring and controlling what we see and receive on satellite
channels and on the internet - of course all in the name of looking after the
best interest of Egyptians and Egyptian media.

Wael went on to describe the sobs and sorrows of the simple viewer of Egyptian TV and how

the ordinary viewer was deprived of his basic right of watching his national team play international games on local TV; over and above, Egyptians turned to international news channels be it American, European, or Arab because, although
they come across as biased, they manage to broadcast current news as opposed to
Egyptian channels that have to wait for "superior directives from above" to
decide whether an Egyptian could handle the truth or will it corrupt his
innocence and taint him with "bad things" that he could certainly do without.

Wael cited an interesting example of how we - Egyptians - have to wait for five days before we are allowed to watch what goes on in the sessions of the People's Assembly

Of course the material needs to undergo extensive editing, sugar-coating, and face-lifting.

Wael goes on to explain why and how this law was applauded by international satellite channels

Although this law was mainly created to censor/limit such channels, they are fully aware that in the era of globalization this is just impossible. On a
brighter note, the new law will hit all independent Egyptian channels killing
their potential and their viewership; thus driving more viewers to Arab and
International channels starting from Al Jazeera and Al Arabiya to Rotana, MBC,
ART, Showtime, Orbit, and Cartoon Network, Disney channel, and Space Toon. Of
course we are leaders ... we are the masters of screwing ourselves over!

Looking into the current status of the Egyptian satellite channels, Wael says

Over the past 50 years and under the kind auspices of the government and its close supervision of the Egyptian media, we have had unprecedented success in
creating almost 40 Egyptian channels that are void of any entertaining content
whatsoever and that have been abandoned by an uninterested Egyptian viewer - 40
channels praising the Egyptian government, defending all officials, falsifying
news, and denying the obvious.

Wael goes on to discuss the wide-spread corruption in the Egyptian media sector and how talents flee its bureaucracy, mazes and dead-ends. The post ends in a lamenting note mourning our present and dreading our future in a country that is governed by a million Big Brother, Big Foot, and Scarface!

Who do they think they are fooling and who do they think believes their lies? We do not know where we would have been or who we would have become without the
"kind supervision" of the Media and those looking after our media interests? If
someone was out there to kill Egypt culturally and media-wise, would he have
been as successful as our Egyptian government? With all gratitude we would like
to tell our government "thank you ... but no thank you ... we have had enough"

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

God

A friend of mine sent me this and I felt like sharing it with you
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Look back and thank God.
Look forward and trust God.
Look around and serve God.
Look within and find God!'

I asked God, 'How do I get the best out of life?' God said,

Face your past without regrets.
Handle your present with confidence.
And prepare for the future without fear!''

Time is like a river.
You cannot touch the same water twice,
because the flow that has passed will never pass again...

Enjoy every moment of life.
Be Blessed!!!!

Friday, July 11, 2008

ENVY – THE ULCER OF THE SOUL

“Are you comparing me to Marwa Rakha?” exclaimed a female writer in a casual chat with a blogger friend of mine using her usual flippant wit that I used to admire when I first got to know her. I will not get into the details of what could have prompted her bile; I will just pause for a few minutes and try to analyze how women – as opposed to men – behave when jealousy strikes them. Being the descendant of the caveman, when a man is jealous or envious of another man, he would get himself a prettier wife, bulkier muscles, more kids, a bigger home, or a fancier car; but when a woman covets what another woman has, there are so many ways to go about it. Let me share with you the categories that I created for fe-mail spite. (I am the Egyptian Fe-mail after all)

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ALLERGIC TO THE F-WORD!

On MSN - One Friday morning

My friend: Are you afraid of f***ing?
Me: I can't f***
My friend: We all f***
Me: Not me
My friend: F***ing is only human
Me: Nop! F***ing is a human option but it is not inevitable
My friend: It could still happen
Me: I will not allow it to happen ... I am allergic to the F-word!!

(My friend logs out)

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TALES FROM AN EGYPTIAN HOUSEHOLD - THE MAN

My father looked at me angrily, then looked at Ahmed doubtingly, and told me that we had to go. The heaviness of guilt and anticipation subdued me as I followed my dad to the car. I was more concerned with my image in front of my friend; I felt humiliated for no good cause. The frown on my dad's forehead grew deeper creating future wrinkles but he was silent. We arrived home and my mother noticed the tension. She asked what went wrong but he was still silent. I told my mom what happened and my fury took over. Dad walked back into the room and the "good girl" lesson began.

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THOU SHALT NOT OBJECT AS THINE HEAD I CENSOR

I cannot believe that there came a day when I had to consult a dictionary for the definition of an adult. “When you grow up” was the answer I got to most of the questions I asked in my childhood or in my troublesome teens be it as simple as wearing making or as complex as making babies. Time and experience answered a lot of these questions yet today I am not sure if there will ever come a point in my life when I will not need to be “more grown up” to be allowed to do, read, or watch what I chose? This is why I needed the help of the dictionary to see if I was adult enough or I still needed more growing up.

Wikipedia said that “The term adult describes any mature organism, but normally it refers to a human: one that is no longer a child / minor and is now either a man or a woman.” Other definitions stated 18 or 21 as a minimum age requirement. Accordingly, I am an adult. Finally I am a grown up! Why do I not feel like an adult? Is it because I live in a country that insists that I am not, and will never be, old enough to watch movies uncensored? Is it because some big boys think that certain books and songs will contaminate my pure soul? Is it because people still blush – or pretend to blush – when the S-Word is mentioned? Is it because countless people act as my guardians – deciding what is good for me and what is not?

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You are Mine

I will drop you in the deepest of oceans
but like a message in a bottle
you will swim to my shore.

I will fly you in the highest of skies
but like a homing pigeon
you will land on my window.

I will let you loose in the busiest of streets
but like a domestic cat
you will stray back to my door.

I will throw you out in the coldest of nights
but like a christmas gift
you will adorn my tree.

I will let you go and walk away
but like the son I never had
I will hear you calling my name.

When you were not looking,
in your core
I planted my seed.

Before you know it,
I shall grow in your soul
like a leafy tree of a hundred years.

I will toss you and turn you
hurt you and burn you
chew you and spit you.

I will hold you and hug you
kiss you and caress you
inhale you and crave you.

Lose yourself in my passion and rage;
Surrender your weapons;
Come unarmed for I will invade you.

I promise to do all that and more;
Do not resist me;
You are mine.