The definition of “cheating” is not the same in male and female dictionaries! The meaning of cheating also differs from one man to the other and from one woman to another! It is a whole range of things that are viewed differently by both genders and by members of the same gender. Ultimate blind loyalty is not really a human trait! We all “cheat” in our own ways and according to our own code of ethics and personal values. The clash occurs when my type of cheating – the type that I find acceptable – is viewed as a disgrace by my partner and vice versa!