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Friday, June 5, 2009

مروة رخا و مشاكل القراء و حلولها المسجلة

ممكن تلاقوا المشاكل القديمة هنا
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و المشاكل الجديدة اهى

البنت الاستبن
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جوزى هيضيع منى
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عايز ينام معاها
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فقر و جهل و مشاكل اجتماعية تانية
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He is perfect .. I don't like him at all .. should I marry him?

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حب دا و لا لعب عيال؟
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الحب قندلة ... و بهدلة

الجزء الأول
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الحب قندلة و بهدلة

الجزء التانى
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كسر الملل و الزهق
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أخليه يحبينى ازاى؟
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أمى متسلطة و انا عايز استقل
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Money and Marriage
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حب المراهقة و مواضيع أخرى
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دوامة الحياة بتقتل الحب بعد الجواز
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البنت الاجتماعية الناجحة سوقها واقف
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الرجل الطاووس
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أنا عارفة انه بيمثل الاهتمام .. اعمل ايه؟
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My Take on Long Distance Relationships
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عايزة اشتغل مذيعة على الراديو
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علاقاتى متعددة و كلها طيارى
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Is he too busy too love me?

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Thursday, June 4, 2009

Obama Smile Aside

Here is the speech and my questions are in red ... I am not claiming that this is an analysis .. I am just asking questions


I am honored to be in the timeless city of Cairo, and to be hosted by two remarkable institutions. For over a thousand years, Al-Azhar has stood as a beacon of Islamic learning, (Isn't this the same institution that sues, censors, and confiscates books, plays, and poems in the name of Islam?) and for over a century, Cairo University has been a source of Egypt's advancement (Isn't this where the poor people go to get a piece of paper to say that they are educated? Aren't those the same people who graduate lacking the skills they need to get a decent job?) Together, you represent the harmony between tradition and progress (Why did I always assume that those two cannot go hand in hand? - Thank you Mr. President) I am grateful for your hospitality, and the hospitality of the people of Egypt (Yes ... we are all home for your own safetly and security). I am also proud to carry with me the goodwill of the American people, and a greeting of peace from Muslim communities in my country: assalaamu alaykum. (How sweet?!)
We meet at a time of tension between the United States and Muslims around the world - tension rooted in historical forces that go beyond any current policy debate. The relationship between Islam and the West includes centuries of co-existence and cooperation, but also conflict and religious wars. (What's new?) More recently, tension has been fed by colonialism that denied rights and opportunities to many Muslims (Who are you talking about exactly?), and a Cold War in which Muslim-majority countries were too often treated as proxies without regard to their own aspirations (As in?). Moreover, the sweeping change brought by modernity and globalization led many Muslims to view the West as hostile to the traditions of Islam (Like Al Azhar?).
Violent extremists have exploited these tensions in a small but potent minority of Muslims. The attacks of September 11th, 2001 (Ahhhh the man holds a grudge) and the continued efforts of these extremists to engage in violence against civilians has led some in my country to view Islam as inevitably hostile not only to America and Western countries, but also to human rights.(How can you praise the wisdom of the Saudi king, then talk about human rights?) This has bred more fear and mistrust.
So long as our relationship is defined by our differences, we will empower those who sow hatred rather than peace, and who promote conflict rather than the cooperation that can help all of our people achieve justice and prosperity. This cycle of suspicion and discord must end. (I am sure this is the part my mom loved)
I have come here to seek a new beginning between the United States and Muslims around the world; one based upon mutual interest and mutual respect (This is the line that I will use in communication skills and customer care workshops); and one based upon the truth that America and Islam are not exclusive, and need not be in competition. Instead, they overlap, and share common principles - principles of justice and progress; tolerance and the dignity of all human beings. (I was not there but did Mr. President say how?)
I do so recognizing that change cannot happen overnight. (ahhh .. here we go ... will it happen over the coming four years though?) No single speech can eradicate years of mistrust, nor can I answer in the time that I have all the complex questions that brought us to this point. (Smart ... feel good song on a humid day in a traffic jam) But I am convinced that in order to move forward, we must say openly the things we hold in our hearts, (Like 911) and that too often are said only behind closed doors. There must be a sustained effort to listen to each other; to learn from each other; to respect one another; and to seek common ground. As the Holy Koran tells us, "Be conscious of God and speak always the truth." (How secular is that speech?) That is what I will try to do - to speak the truth as best I can, humbled by the task before us, and firm in my belief that the interests we share as human beings are far more powerful than the forces that drive us apart. (feel good song on a humid day in a traffic jam)
Part of this conviction is rooted in my own experience. I am a Christian, but my father came from a Kenyan family that includes generations of Muslims. As a boy, I spent several years in Indonesia and heard the call of the azaan at the break of dawn and the fall of dusk. As a young man, I worked in Chicago communities where many found dignity and peace in their Muslim faith. (Emotional approach ... affective realm ... good stunt)
As a student of history, I also know civilization's debt to Islam. (Yes ... I took this chapter at school then I was told that our curriculums have false info .. who am I to believe now?) It was Islam - at places like Al-Azhar University - that carried the light of learning through so many centuries, paving the way for Europe's Renaissance and Enlightenment. It was innovation in Muslim communities that developed the order of algebra; our magnetic compass and tools of navigation; our mastery of pens and printing; our understanding of how disease spreads and how it can be healed. Islamic culture has given us majestic arches and soaring spires; timeless poetry and cherished music; elegant calligraphy and places of peaceful contemplation. And throughout history, Islam has demonstrated through words and deeds the possibilities of religious tolerance and racial equality. (I really do not want to comment about each single one of those points ... let me just ask those who cheered .. where are "we" now and where are "they" today in terms of civilization?)
I know, too, that Islam has always been a part of America's story. The first nation to recognize my country was Morocco. In signing the Treaty of Tripoli in 1796, our second President John Adams wrote, "The United States has in itself no character of enmity against the laws, religion or tranquility of Muslims." And since our founding, American Muslims have enriched the United States. They have fought in our wars, served in government, stood for civil rights, started businesses, taught at our Universities, excelled in our sports arenas, won Nobel Prizes, built our tallest building, and lit the Olympic Torch. And when the first Muslim-American was recently elected to Congress, he took the oath to defend our Constitution using the same Holy Koran that one of our Founding Fathers - Thomas Jefferson - kept in his personal library. (emmm ... I wonder how the Azhar people and Muslim Brothers feel about that .... As for me, I am always accused of being a traitor who came from the US to corrupt the good Egyptian people!)

So I have known Islam on three continents before coming to the region where it was first revealed. That experience guides my conviction that partnership between America and Islam must be based on what Islam is, not what it isn't. And I consider it part of my responsibility as President of the United States to fight against negative stereotypes of Islam wherever they appear. (hahahahaaaaa ... Afghans, Iraqi's, Palestinians ... are not muslims ... terrorists they are and the terrorists shall die .. this is why there is no mention of US troops going home!)
But that same principle must apply to Muslim perceptions of America. (Now we are talking!)Just as Muslims do not fit a crude stereotype, America is not the crude stereotype of a self-interested empire. (Say that to Comrade Hossam) The United States has been one of the greatest sources of progress that the world has ever known. We were born out of revolution against an empire. We were founded upon the ideal that all are created equal, and we have shed blood and struggled for centuries to give meaning to those words - within our borders, and around the world. We are shaped by every culture, drawn from every end of the Earth, and dedicated to a simple concept: E pluribus unum: "Out of many, one." (This is the equivilent of the civilization's debt to Islam paragraph)
Much has been made of the fact that an African-American with the name Barack Hussein Obama could be elected President. But my personal story is not so unique. (NO?!!!) The dream of opportunity for all people has not come true for everyone in America, but its promise exists for all who come to our shores - that includes nearly seven million American Muslims in our country today who enjoy incomes and education that are higher than average. (Yes .. the American Dream ... or shall I say Illusion?)
Moreover, freedom in America is indivisible from the freedom to practice one's religion. (Practice at your own risk!) That is why there is a mosque in every state of our union, and over 1,200 mosques within our borders. (smart mention .. seriously) That is why the U.S. government has gone to court to protect the right of women and girls to wear the hijab, and to punish those who would deny it. (Honor crimes?!!!)
So let there be no doubt: Islam is a part of America. And I believe that America holds within her the truth that regardless of race, religion, or station in life, all of us share common aspirations - to live in peace and security; to get an education and to work with dignity; to love our families, our communities, and our God. These things we share. This is the hope of all humanity. (This is what mom tried to tell me but could not put it in tangible promises - feel good song on a humid day in a traffic jam)
Of course, recognizing our common humanity is only the beginning of our task. Words alone cannot meet the needs of our people. These needs will be met only if we act boldly in the years ahead; (emmmm ... hollow?) and if we understand that the challenges we face are shared, and our failure to meet them will hurt us all.
For we have learned from recent experience that when a financial system weakens in one country, prosperity is hurt everywhere. (Was that an apology?) When a new flu infects one human being, all are at risk. (Was that a threat?) When one nation pursues a nuclear weapon, the risk of nuclear attack rises for all nations. (Was that a justification to what happened in Iraq?) When violent extremists operate in one stretch of mountains (Afgan war justified?), people are endangered across an ocean (Who?). And when innocents in Bosnia and Darfur are slaughtered, that is a stain on our collective conscience. (Finally something concrete .. but why those two examples in particular?) That is what it means to share this world in the 21st century. That is the responsibility we have to one another as human beings. (Team America will save the world)
This is a difficult responsibility to embrace. For human history has often been a record of nations and tribes subjugating one another to serve their own interests. Yet in this new age, such attitudes are self-defeating. Given our interdependence, any world order that elevates one nation or group of people over another will inevitably fail. (tatatata .. palestinian strife? Israeli conflict?) So whatever we think of the past, we must not be prisoners of it. (Reads: Give in to facts .. wake up and smell the coffee you idiots!) Our problems must be dealt with through partnership; (confilct resolved!) progress must be shared. (BTW I am not against this resolution .. but I had to laugh at those who cheered!)
That does not mean we should ignore sources of tension. (Who?) Indeed, it suggests the opposite: we must face these tensions squarely.(How?) And so in that spirit, let me speak as clearly and plainly as I can about some specific issues that I believe we must finally confront together. (Finally!)
The first issue that we have to confront is violent extremism in all of its forms.
In Ankara, I made clear that America is not - and never will be - at war with Islam. We will, however, relentlessly confront violent extremists who pose a grave threat to our security. (Who? Iraq, Afghanistan? Syria? Lebanon? Palestine?) Because we reject the same thing that people of all faiths reject: the killing of innocent men, women, and children. (911 again )And it is my first duty as President to protect the American people.
The situation in Afghanistan demonstrates America's goals, and our need to work together. (Darn!!!!! I hope no one cheered here!) Over seven years ago, the United States pursued al Qaeda and the Taliban with broad international support. We did not go by choice, we went because of necessity. I am aware that some question or justify the events of 9/11. (Getting even? Justifying?) But let us be clear: al Qaeda killed nearly 3,000 people on that day. (How many innocent Afghans were killed?) The victims were innocent men, women and children from America and many other nations who had done nothing to harm anybody. (Emotional appeal again) And yet Al Qaeda chose to ruthlessly murder these people, claimed credit for the attack, and even now states their determination to kill on a massive scale. They have affiliates in many countries and are trying to expand their reach. These are not opinions to be debated; these are facts to be dealt with. (Is that a promise to continue what Bush started?)
Make no mistake: we do not want to keep our troops in Afghanistan. We seek no military bases there. It is agonizing for America to lose our young men and women. It is costly and politically difficult to continue this conflict. We would gladly bring every single one of our troops home if we could be confident that there were not violent extremists in Afghanistan and Pakistan determined to kill as many Americans as they possibly can. (Is that a promise to continue what Bush started?) But that is not yet the case. (He still holds a grudge! Wasn't he just saying forget the past and let bygones be bygones?)
That's why we're partnering with a coalition of forty-six countries. (no more Mr. Nice Guy) And despite the costs involved, America's commitment will not weaken. Indeed, none of us should tolerate these extremists. (I do not want to hear one more demonstrator for Palestine or its cause!) They have killed in many countries. They have killed people of different faiths - more than any other, they have killed Muslims. (Smart ... involvement) Their actions are irreconcilable with the rights of human beings, the progress of nations, and with Islam. The Holy Koran teaches that whoever kills an innocent, it is as if he has killed all mankind; and whoever saves a person, it is as if he has saved all mankind. (reeling ... slap and tickle technique) The enduring faith of over a billion people is so much bigger than the narrow hatred of a few. (Let's get rid of them and if anyone else dies those are normal casualties of war) Islam is not part of the problem in combating violent extremism - it is an important part of promoting peace. (Jihad?!!)
We also know that military power alone is not going to solve the problems in Afghanistan and Pakistan. That is why we plan to invest $1.5 billion each year over the next five years to partner with Pakistanis to build schools and hospitals, roads and businesses, and hundreds of millions to help those who have been displaced. And that is why we are providing more than $2.8 billion to help Afghans develop their economy and deliver services that people depend upon. (Slap & tickle ... money talks)

Let me also address the issue of Iraq. Unlike Afghanistan, Iraq was a war of choice that provoked strong differences in my country and around the world. Although I believe that the Iraqi people are ultimately better off without the tyranny of Saddam Hussein, (Justification) I also believe that events in Iraq have reminded America of the need to use diplomacy and build international consensus to resolve our problems whenever possible. (huh?!!! what was that about?) Indeed, we can recall the words of Thomas Jefferson, who said: "I hope that our wisdom will grow with our power, and teach us that the less we use our power the greater it will be." (Power = war? bullying?)
Today, America has a dual responsibility: to help Iraq forge a better future - and to leave Iraq to Iraqis. I have made it clear to the Iraqi people that we pursue no bases, and no claim on their territory or resources. Iraq's sovereignty is its own. That is why I ordered the removal of our combat brigades by next August. That is why we will honor our agreement with Iraq's democratically-elected government to remove combat troops from Iraqi cities by July, and to remove all our troops from Iraq by 2012. We will help Iraq train its Security Forces and develop its economy. But we will support a secure and united Iraq as a partner, and never as a patron. (Whoever wrote this speech is amazing ... is a partner the same as an ally? Nop! An ally chooses the partnership ... but Iraq and it's "democratically-elected government" have to accept the deal .. this is coersion! The dates are hillarious! The guy said they are staying until 2012 and people cheered!)
And finally, just as America can never tolerate violence by extremists, we must never alter our principles. 9/11 was an enormous trauma to our country. The fear and anger that it provoked was understandable, but in some cases, it led us to act contrary to our ideals. We are taking concrete actions to change course. I have unequivocally prohibited the use of torture by the United States, and I have ordered the prison at Guantanamo Bay closed by early next year.
So America will defend itself respectful of the sovereignty of nations and the rule of law. And we will do so in partnership with Muslim communities which are also threatened. The sooner the extremists are isolated and unwelcome in Muslim communities, the sooner we will all be safer. (Karim Amer? Bloggers? Writers? Hisbah victims? opposition? Emergency law victims?)
The second major source of tension that we need to discuss is the situation between Israelis, Palestinians and the Arab world.
America's strong bonds with Israel are well known. This bond is unbreakable. (end of story!) It is based upon cultural and historical ties, and the recognition that the aspiration for a Jewish homeland is rooted in a tragic history that cannot be denied.
Around the world, the Jewish people were persecuted for centuries, and anti-Semitism in Europe culminated in an unprecedented Holocaust. (referred to as the grandsons of pigs and monkeys by Al Azhar grads and Cairo uni grads .. and many other grads) Tomorrow, I will visit Buchenwald, which was part of a network of camps where Jews were enslaved, tortured, shot and gassed to death by the Third Reich. Six million Jews were killed - more than the entire Jewish population of Israel today. Denying that fact is baseless, ignorant, and hateful. (I think he was addressing Nawara Negm!) Threatening Israel with destruction - or repeating vile stereotypes about Jews - is deeply wrong, and only serves to evoke in the minds of Israelis this most painful of memories while preventing the peace that the people of this region deserve. (I think he was still addressing Nawara Negm!)
On the other hand, it is also undeniable that the Palestinian people - Muslims and Christians - have suffered in pursuit of a homeland. For more than sixty years they have endured the pain of dislocation. Many wait in refugee camps in the West Bank, Gaza, and neighboring lands for a life of peace and security that they have never been able to lead. They endure the daily humiliations - large and small - that come with occupation. So let there be no doubt: the situation for the Palestinian people is intolerable. America will not turn our backs on the legitimate Palestinian aspiration for dignity, opportunity, and a state of their own.
For decades, there has been a stalemate: two peoples with legitimate aspirations, (he just said that they will split the land) each with a painful history that makes compromise elusive. (who will get what?) It is easy to point fingers - for Palestinians to point to the displacement brought by Israel's founding, and for Israelis to point to the constant hostility and attacks throughout its history from within its borders as well as beyond. (They call it jihad Mr. President) But if we see this conflict only from one side or the other, then we will be blind to the truth: the only resolution is for the aspirations of both sides to be met through two states, where Israelis and Palestinians each live in peace and security. (emmmmm .... he did say it flat out! I wish Sadat was here with us today)
That is in Israel's interest, Palestine's interest, America's interest, and the world's interest. That is why I intend to personally pursue this outcome with all the patience that the task requires. (killing terrorists who threaten prgress .. remember!) The obligations that the parties have agreed to under the Road Map are clear. For peace to come, it is time for them - and all of us - to live up to our responsibilities.
Palestinians must abandon violence. (or else!!!) Resistance through violence and killing is wrong and does not succeed. For centuries, black people in America suffered the lash of the whip as slaves and the humiliation of segregation. But it was not violence that won full and equal rights. It was a peaceful and determined insistence upon the ideals at the center of America's founding. (sweet .. and emotional) This same story can be told by people from South Africa to South Asia; from Eastern Europe to Indonesia. It's a story with a simple truth: that violence is a dead end. It is a sign of neither courage nor power to shoot rockets at sleeping children, or to blow up old women on a bus. That is not how moral authority is claimed; that is how it is surrendered. (and until then, team America will combat violence where ever it erupts!)
Now is the time for Palestinians to focus on what they can build. (to move on in other words) The Palestinian Authority must develop its capacity to govern, with institutions that serve the needs of its people. Hamas does have support among some Palestinians, but they also have responsibilities. To play a role in fulfilling Palestinian aspirations, and to unify the Palestinian people, Hamas must put an end to violence, recognize past agreements, and recognize Israel's right to exist. (What on earth was that? What did I miss? Hamas?)
At the same time, Israelis must acknowledge that just as Israel's right to exist cannot be denied, neither can Palestine's. The United States does not accept the legitimacy of continued Israeli settlements. This construction violates previous agreements and undermines efforts to achieve peace. It is time for these settlements to stop. (Notice the tone ... a loving father to his son ... no threats .. just firm enough to be heard!)
Israel must also live up to its obligations to ensure that Palestinians can live, and work, and develop their society. (Like a big brother who has to take the hand of a little boy) And just as it devastates Palestinian families, the continuing humanitarian crisis in Gaza does not serve Israel's security; neither does the continuing lack of opportunity in the West Bank. Progress in the daily lives of the Palestinian people must be part of a road to peace, and Israel must take concrete steps to enable such progress. (He makes sense to me but I still wonder about the cheers ... those who were cheering today are the same who were demonstrating yesterday!)
Finally, the Arab States must recognize that the Arab Peace Initiative was an important beginning, but not the end of their responsibilities. The Arab-Israeli conflict should no longer be used to distract the people of Arab nations from other problems. Instead, it must be a cause for action to help the Palestinian people develop the institutions that will sustain their state; to recognize Israel's legitimacy; and to choose progress over a self-defeating focus on the past. (I should have used those words the day I supported Mubarak's decision to shut down the rafa7 border)
America will align our policies with those who pursue peace, (anyone else will be the enemy of progrss and those have to be kept in a separate place - like a prison) and say in public what we say in private to Israelis and Palestinians and Arabs. We cannot impose peace. But privately, many Muslims recognize that Israel will not go away. Likewise, many Israelis recognize the need for a Palestinian state. It is time for us to act on what everyone knows to be true. (hahahahahaa .. I love the change of tone from Israel to palestine)
Too many tears have flowed. Too much blood has been shed. All of us have a responsibility to work for the day when the mothers of Israelis and Palestinians can see their children grow up without fear; (emotional) when the Holy Land of three great faiths is the place of peace that God intended it to be; when Jerusalem is a secure and lasting home for Jews and Christians and Muslims, and a place for all of the children of Abraham to mingle peacefully together as in the story of Isra, when Moses, Jesus, and Mohammed (peace be upon them) joined in prayer. (reeling them in ... the guy is a mesmirist!)
The third source of tension is our shared interest in the rights and responsibilities of nations on nuclear weapons.
This issue has been a source of tension between the United States and the Islamic Republic of Iran. For many years, Iran has defined itself in part by its opposition to my country, and there is indeed a tumultuous history between us. In the middle of the Cold War, the United States played a role in the overthrow of a democratically-elected Iranian government. Since the Islamic Revolution, Iran has played a role in acts of hostage-taking and violence against U.S. troops and civilians. This history is well known. Rather than remain trapped in the past, I have made it clear to Iran's leaders and people that my country is prepared to move forward. The question, now, is not what Iran is against, but rather what future it wants to build. (Basically if they do not put their act together and take advantage of the president's kindness they will be next on the hitlist!)
It will be hard to overcome decades of mistrust, but we will proceed with courage, rectitude and resolve. There will be many issues to discuss between our two countries, and we are willing to move forward without preconditions on the basis of mutual respect. But it is clear to all concerned that when it comes to nuclear weapons, we have reached a decisive point. This is not simply about America's interests. It is about preventing a nuclear arms race in the Middle East that could lead this region and the world down a hugely dangerous path. (Team America will save the world!)
I understand those who protest that some countries have weapons that others do not. No single nation should pick and choose which nations hold nuclear weapons. That is why I strongly reaffirmed America's commitment to seek a world in which no nations hold nuclear weapons. And any nation - including Iran - should have the right to access peaceful nuclear power if it complies with its responsibilities under the nuclear Non-Proliferation Treaty. (Access? Who then would grant access? Who would hold the power? What's that all about?) That commitment is at the core of the Treaty, and it must be kept for all who fully abide by it. And I am hopeful that all countries in the region can share in this goal.
The fourth issue that I will address is democracy.
I know there has been controversy about the promotion of democracy in recent years, and much of this controversy is connected to the war in Iraq. So let me be clear: no system of government can or should be imposed upon one nation by any other. (OOh My God!!!!!!! He just said to all those hopeful Egyptians that he and his country will do nothing in support of democracy in Egypt .. Mubrak is doing just fine!)
That does not lessen my commitment, however, to governments that reflect the will of the people. Each nation gives life to this principle in its own way, grounded in the traditions of its own people. America does not presume to know what is best for everyone, just as we would not presume to pick the outcome of a peaceful election. (Congrats .. Gamal Mubarak is our next president) But I do have an unyielding belief that all people yearn for certain things: the ability to speak your mind and have a say in how you are governed; confidence in the rule of law and the equal administration of justice; government that is transparent and doesn't steal from the people; the freedom to live as you choose. Those are not just American ideas, they are human rights, and that is why we will support them everywhere. (Natural question is: How?)
There is no straight line to realize this promise. (Natural Obama answer: Evasive) But this much is clear: governments that protect these rights are ultimately more stable, successful and secure. (اللى بيشيل قربة مخرومة هتخر على دماغه) Suppressing ideas never succeeds in making them go away. America respects the right of all peaceful and law-abiding voices to be heard around the world, even if we disagree with them. And we will welcome all elected, peaceful governments - provided they govern with respect for all their people. (Ayman Nour? Comments please!)
This last point is important because there are some who advocate for democracy only when they are out of power; once in power, they are ruthless in suppressing the rights of others. No matter where it takes hold, government of the people and by the people sets a single standard for all who hold power: you must maintain your power through consent, not coercion; you must respect the rights of minorities, and participate with a spirit of tolerance and compromise; you must place the interests of your people and the legitimate workings of the political process above your party. Without these ingredients, elections alone do not make true democracy. (Mom told me about that part .. she love his kind words .. bless his heart!)
The fifth issue that we must address together is religious freedom.
Islam has a proud tradition of tolerance. We see it in the history of Andalusia and Cordoba during the Inquisition. I saw it firsthand as a child in Indonesia, where devout Christians worshiped freely in an overwhelmingly Muslim country. That is the spirit we need today. People in every country should be free to choose and live their faith based upon the persuasion of the mind, heart, and soul. This tolerance is essential for religion to thrive, but it is being challenged in many different ways. (I could not agree more!)
Among some Muslims, there is a disturbing tendency to measure one's own faith by the rejection of another's. The richness of religious diversity must be upheld - whether it is for Maronites in Lebanon or the Copts in Egypt. And fault lines must be closed among Muslims as well, as the divisions between Sunni and Shia have led to tragic violence, particularly in Iraq.
Freedom of religion is central to the ability of peoples to live together. We must always examine the ways in which we protect it. For instance, in the United States, rules on charitable giving have made it harder for Muslims to fulfill their religious obligation. That is why I am committed to working with American Muslims to ensure that they can fulfill zakat.
Likewise, it is important for Western countries to avoid impeding Muslim citizens from practicing religion as they see fit - for instance, by dictating what clothes a Muslim woman should wear. We cannot disguise hostility towards any religion behind the pretence of liberalism. (Secular Egyptians .. what say you?)
Indeed, faith should bring us together. That is why we are forging service projects in America that bring together Christians, Muslims, and Jews. That is why we welcome efforts like Saudi Arabian King Abdullah's Interfaith dialogue and Turkey's leadership in the Alliance of Civilizations. Around the world, we can turn dialogue into Interfaith service, so bridges between peoples lead to action - whether it is combating malaria in Africa, or providing relief after a natural disaster. (was that just fluff or am I being too harsh?)
The sixth issue that I want to address is women's rights. (Yesssssssssssssss!)
I know there is debate about this issue. I reject the view of some in the West that a woman who chooses to cover her hair is somehow less equal, but I do believe that a woman who is denied an education is denied equality. And it is no coincidence that countries where women are well-educated are far more likely to be prosperous. (Women's rights = dress and education?)
Now let me be clear: issues of women's equality are by no means simply an issue for Islam. In Turkey, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Indonesia, we have seen Muslim-majority countries elect a woman to lead. Meanwhile, the struggle for women's equality continues in many aspects of American life, and in countries around the world.
Our daughters can contribute just as much to society as our sons, and our common prosperity will be advanced by allowing all humanity - men and women - to reach their full potential. I do not believe that women must make the same choices as men in order to be equal, and I respect those women who choose to live their lives in traditional roles. But it should be their choice. That is why the United States will partner with any Muslim-majority country to support expanded literacy for girls, and to help young women pursue employment through micro-financing that helps people live their dreams. (Ohhhhh noooo ... What choice ... if she does not know any better? If she thinks she cannot do any better? If she is not empowered? If she has no self esteem? If she is brought up believing that she is a sin and that she will always be inferior? - Root causes Mr. President ... Root causes)
Finally, I want to discuss economic development and opportunity.
I know that for many, the face of globalization is contradictory. The Internet and television can bring knowledge and information, but also offensive sexuality and mindless violence. ( wicked smile) Trade can bring new wealth and opportunities, but also huge disruptions and changing communities. In all nations - including my own - this change can bring fear. Fear that because of modernity we will lose of control over our economic choices, our politics, and most importantly our identities - those things we most cherish about our communities, our families, our traditions, and our faith
But I also know that human progress cannot be denied. There need not be contradiction between development and tradition. (LOL ... Slap and tickle .... reel them in .. let them cheer) Countries like Japan and South Korea grew their economies while maintaining distinct cultures. The same is true for the astonishing progress within Muslim-majority countries from Kuala Lumpur to Dubai. (Dubai?) In ancient times and in our times, Muslim communities have been at the forefront of innovation and education. (LOL)
This is important because no development strategy can be based only upon what comes out of the ground, nor can it be sustained while young people are out of work. Many Gulf States have enjoyed great wealth as a consequence of oil, and some are beginning to focus it on broader development. But all of us must recognize that education and innovation will be the currency of the 21st century, and in too many Muslim communities there remains underinvestment in these areas. (Applause!!! Seriously ... but how when the minds are shackled?) I am emphasizing such investments within my country. And while America in the past has focused on oil and gas in this part of the world, we now seek a broader engagement.
On education, we will expand exchange programs, and increase scholarships, like the one that brought my father to America, while encouraging more Americans to study in Muslim communities. And we will match promising Muslim students with internships in America; invest in on-line learning for teachers and children around the world; and create a new online network, so a teenager in Kansas can communicate instantly with a teenager in Cairo. (Cultural infilteration?)
On economic development, we will create a new corps of business volunteers to partner with counterparts in Muslim-majority countries. And I will host a Summit on Entrepreneurship this year to identify how we can deepen ties between business leaders, foundations and social entrepreneurs in the United States and Muslim communities around the world.
On science and technology, we will launch a new fund to support technological development in Muslim-majority countries, and to help transfer ideas to the marketplace so they can create jobs. We will open centers of scientific excellence in Africa, the Middle East and Southeast Asia, and appoint new Science Envoys to collaborate on programs that develop new sources of energy, create green jobs, digitize records, clean water, and grow new crops. And today I am announcing a new global effort with the Organization of the Islamic Conference to eradicate polio. And we will also expand partnerships with Muslim communities to promote child and maternal health.
All these things must be done in partnership. Americans are ready to join with citizens and governments; community organizations, religious leaders, and businesses in Muslim communities around the world to help our people pursue a better life. (Goodwill? Am I being too cynical? This is like a heavy dose of dopamine)
The issues that I have described will not be easy to address. (ahhhhh now we are back on earth!) But we have a responsibility to join together on behalf of the world we seek - a world where extremists no longer threaten our people, and American troops have come home; a world where Israelis and Palestinians are each secure in a state of their own, and nuclear energy is used for peaceful purposes; a world where governments serve their citizens, and the rights of all God's children are respected. Those are mutual interests. That is the world we seek. But we can only achieve it together. (Nice closing!)
I know there are many - Muslim and non-Muslim - who question whether we can forge this new beginning. Some are eager to stoke the flames of division, and to stand in the way of progress. Some suggest that it isn't worth the effort - that we are fated to disagree, and civilizations are doomed to clash. Many more are simply skeptical that real change can occur. (yes .. I am one fo those!) There is so much fear, so much mistrust. But if we choose to be bound by the past, we will never move forward. (it is not the past that we are bound by .. it is the present and common sense ... logic, forecasting, and lessons learnt!) And I want to particularly say this to young people of every faith, in every country - you, more than anyone, have the ability to remake this world. (Yes .. young people who are soaked in the tutorings of the elders (the past in your reference)
All of us share this world for but a brief moment in time. The question is whether we spend that time focused on what pushes us apart, or whether we commit ourselves to an effort - a sustained effort - to find common ground, to focus on the future we seek for our children, and to respect the dignity of all human beings. (Sounds really good ... BUT .... what happens when the Obama smile effect wears off? what happens when those people who cheered go back to their busy hectic miserable lives?)
It is easier to start wars than to end them. It is easier to blame others than to look inward; to see what is different about someone than to find the things we share. But we should choose the right path, not just the easy path. (Tradition & Progess comes to mind) There is also one rule that lies at the heart of every religion - that we do unto others as we would have them do unto us. This truth transcends nations and peoples - a belief that isn't new; that isn't black or white or brown; that isn't Christian, or Muslim or Jew. It's a belief that pulsed in the cradle of civilization, and that still beats in the heart of billions. It's a faith in other people, and it's what brought me here today.
We have the power to make the world we seek, but only if we have the courage to make a new beginning, keeping in mind what has been written.
The Holy Koran tells us, "O mankind! We have created you male and a female; and we have made you into nations and tribes so that you may know one another."
The Talmud tells us: "The whole of the Torah is for the purpose of promoting peace."
The Holy Bible tells us, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God."
The people of the world can live together in peace. We know that is God's vision. Now, that must be our work here on Earth. Thank you. And may God's peace be upon you. (Wrapped up in the intensity of the moment people cheered and applause filled the air ... then what?)

I like the guy .... I like the speech ... I like the composition of the speech from a technical aspect ... I like the core principles in the speech .. I do not like the fact that it was intangible .. that it sugar-coated major conflicts ... that it made it sound so easy to change ... that people identified with his words because he touched their hearts ... now I am just drained!

The power of the Obama Smile

Everyone who knows me in person or has been following my blog since I started blogging is fully aware that I have a severe case of political apathy ... I really tried shaking it off but nothing worked. I am an advocate of freedom of expression and hypocrisy brings out my green-eyed monster.

Having said that, I went to bed late last night and missed out on Obama's speech today. Yes I slept. My mom woke me up with a call and she sounded 20 years younger; she was laughing and buzzing with energy.

Mom woke up at 8 and has been following the Obama visit since he landed at the airport - I was ashamed of myself. I asked her how it went and she was so happy as she said that she "loved the guy!"

I asked her what the guy said and her response was: "he is such a kind person. He is so good. He has a really good heart. I wish people would listen to him and to what he said." - Yes!!! That was my question: What did he say?!

I asked again about what he said and she responded "good things ... peace ... and forgiveness ... and he quoted the Qur'an."

I was really curious about the good things he said so I asked her to give me an example and she could not tell me one good thing he literally said ... still she was happy and over the moon with his speech. - now this is what I call charisma!

I guess I was spared the power of the Obama Smile and going through the transcript of his speech I realized that in my next PR, media, marketing, communications, presentations skills, and customer care courses I will use it ... I am serious ... the speech is a piece of art ... the choice of words, the sequence, the breaks, the flow .... and most importantly .. it says nothing ... it promises nothing ... it is just like a feel good song on a humid day in a traffic jam!


Friday, May 29, 2009

مشاكل القراء مع مروة رخا

Where did all the open-minded people go?
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=497

أنا و الآخر
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=496

She got bored of me
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=495

أعمل ايه مع حماتى و خايفة من جوزى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=494

Sudden eclipse of the heart
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=493

حبيس الماضى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=492

The Energy of Life
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=491

ماما بتخنق عليا أنا و خطيبى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=490

من علاقة على النت لعلاقة على أرض الواقع
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=489

بيلعب بيا؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=488

بحبه و مش باكلم ولاد
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=487

مشمش الفقير و الفرق الاجتماعى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=486

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Marriage = Legal Prostitution

According to the Theorem of Pythagoras

If Prostitution = Sex for money
If Prostitution = Sex for food
If Marriage = Legal sex for money
If Marriage = Legal sex for food

therefore

Marriage for sex = Legal Prostitution
Marriage for food = Legal Prostitution
Marriage for money = Legal Prostitution
Marriage = Prostitution

Q.E.D.

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السحاتيت تلم الشحاتين

السحاتيت تلم الشحاتين
مقال مروة رخا لمجلة احنا - مايو2009


أنا دايما بقول إن أنا خبيرة تسويق و علاقات عامة قبل ما أكون كاتبة و لا مذيعة و لا غيره. ال 15 سنة اللى فاتوا من عمرى مش ممكن أمسحهم و أعتبر نفسى بنت إمبارح ... بس أنا من ساعة ما دخلت وسط الكتاب و المدونين و أنا أسمع كلامهم أصدقهم أشوف أمورهم أستعجب ... و بعدين بصيت على حال المصريين عموما لقيت إن فى جين ندالة و جين لا مبالاة و جين هلامى مالهوش اسم هما سبب الفقر و الجهل و المعاناة اللى المصرى قايم نايم فيهم. فقررت الشهر ده أفكر الناس بشوية مبادئ هى سبب نجاح أى شركة أو بلد أو إنسان ... لان أنا فعلا اتخنقت من السلبية

If you pay Peanuts ... you get Monkeys
بالبلدى: السحاتيت تلم الشحاتين - سحاتيت جمع سحتوت


سؤال يطرح نفسه: المصرى ليه رخيص؟ ليه العشرة مليون منه بقرش؟ ليه لا له دية و لا له سعر؟
أقول لكم ليه .. علشان مش عامل لنفسه قيمة .. علشان بيرضى بقليله - مش من باب القناعة بل من باب الرمرمة و الخيبة و فراغة العين. أنا مش عايزة حد يزعل منى .. احنا بنتكلم. يا ترى ايه اللى هيحصل لو 20 مليون مصرى اتفقوا انهم مش هيشتغلوا بملاليم؟


مثال حى: التليفزيون المصرى و القناوات الخاصة المملوكة لمصريين ... ليه مش بيدفعوا للضيوف؟ ليه بتعاملوا مع الضيف كأنه لا وراه شغلة و لا مشغلة و الطبيعى انه يقوم يفز يطلع فى التليفزيون و يبوس ايده وش و ظهر لانهم عبروه؟
الشهر اللى فات و تحت ضوء التطويرات بالتليفزيون القناة الأولى و التانية اكتشفونى و المعدين اتفجأوا لما سألت عن الفلوس و كان الرد "ده التليفزيون المصرى" - شهادة الفقر اللى ملهاش معنى

Thursday, May 21, 2009

مشاكل القراء بالصوت - مروة رخا

مروة .. انت بتحلى المشاكل ازاى؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=483

لما الطموح يتقلب ضدك
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=482

كل شوية نتخانق و نسيب بعض
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=481

أسئلة فى الحب
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=480

سابتنى و اتخطبت
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=479

A jerk is the father of my kids

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=478

الحب كلام و بس؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=477

أهل العريس مش طايقيننى من ساعة الكلام فى القايمة

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=476

الوش الخشب علشان الولد يحترمنى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=474

ماما بتطفش العرسان
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=474

Life on hold because of a man (This is a very good one)
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=473

نظرة فابتسامة
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=472

How do I fix it?
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=471

ابن خالتى هتك عرضى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=470

قال لى نبقى اصدقاء ... استناه؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=469

عايزة اتجوز بقى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=468

خدى اللى بيحبك
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=467

كارثة
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=466

علاقات مدمرة
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=465

Uncertainty
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=464

خايفة من مصير ماما
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=463

اتعامل ازاى مع الرجل الشرقى
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=462

أنا عايز اتجوز واحدة غنية تصرف عليا انا و مراتى و ولادى

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=461

انا بحب شخصية بابا و مش بحب شخصية ماما
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=460

صاحبتى الصايعة
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=459

المشاعر تكسف
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=458

أنا كفرت بالحب
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=457

البنت أكبر من الولد بسنة
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=456

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

مروة رخا و مشاكل القراء

I do not like Egyptian Girls

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=439

ابن امه

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=438

الندية ... راس براس مع الراجل

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=437

مشكلة مكلكعة

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=436

I attract the wrong type of guys

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=435

مش عارف أحس مع خطيبتى بنفس المشاعر مع اللى كنت باحسها مع صاحبتى

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=434

حب الجامعة كمان و كمان

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=433

حبيبى شكله وحش

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=432

أشباح الماضى و عار العائلة

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=431

Is it love or just another crush?

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=430

Self - Confidence is the key

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=429

بحب واحد بيحب واحدة تانية

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=428

قال لى انه معجب بيا قلت له يعنى انت عايز ايه؟

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=427

انعدام الثقة بالنفس و سوء الاختيار

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=426

بيغنى لى و لا بيغنى عليا؟

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=425

Monday, May 4, 2009

دفعة جديدة من المشاكل المسجلة - مروة رخا و مشاكل القراء

Why don't you get married and wear a scarf?

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=410

Could an abusive man change?

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=411

The Sex is Boring

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=412

حب الجامعة

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=413

ليه العلاقة بتبتدى و تنتهى بأمر الراجل؟

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=414

بحب واحد أصغر منى بسبع سنين

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=415

بيعايرونى بعلاقة عابرة

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=416

He is in love with me BUT he has a girlfriend

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=417

حب الجامعة .. تانى

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=418

سابنى و خطب .. اعمل ايه؟

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=419

واحدة بتسأل: خايف يتجوز - اعمل له ايه؟

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=399

واحد بيسأل: هى كانت بتصدنى و لا كانت بتتقل؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=400

مشمشة متضايقة من قلة اهتمامه
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=401

هى البنت ممكن تحب زى الولد؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=402

Lovers or friends?

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=403

اتطلق و لا استحمل الاهانة؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=404

التدين
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=405

الولد لسة قدامه 4 سنين - تستناه و لا لأ
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=406

اصارحها و لا لأ
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=407

عايز يلغى شخصيتى ... أسيبه؟
http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=408

Random Questions

http://www.marwarakha.com/index.php?categoryid=41&p2_articleid=409

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Stigmatized by AIDS




A week ago I was watching OTV's new show - Baladna - for the first time and they were talking about AIDS. As usual there were two camps; a guy (I wish I could recall his name) who was calling for the integration of the AIDS patient into the society, and a woman who supposedly represents the voice of religion. There was also an AIDS patient on the show .. sitting in the dark to avoid the AIDS stigma.

I will start with the woman's argument. She basically said that there are two types of people with AIDS. The First type are those who got it through illigitimate sexual encounters. The second type are those who got it by an accident - like blood transfusion or an infected marriage partner. Then she called for discriminating between the two types because the first type is a criminal and the second type is a victim. She literally said that those who belong to the first type deserve what they got and those who belong to the second type deserve sympathy - but both should be isolated in a colony of their own to avoid spreading their infection in the society.

The guy argued well but he was not given a fair chance to present his case (flawed presentation.) He said/wanted to say/ tried to say that because of such harsh opinions and clear ignorance AIDS is spreading fast in Egypt. People who have casual sex and multiple partners withold from getting tested for fear of being stigmatized. They would rather continue their sexual practices risking getting infected and infecting others. People who were not infected because of sex live among us and hide their illness for fear of being judged or isolated. He also attempted to make a very valid point: from a psychological perspective AIDS patients get angry and feel that life was not fair to them. Avoiding them only makes them angrier. If they cannot get jobs, if they cannot have friends, if they cannot get married, if they are always pointed out with disgust and apprehension, they will just get more infuriated and they will seek revenge; they will not get tested, they will not inform others of their illness, and they will get others infected just out of revenge.

The guy also tried to explain how people get infected with AIDS and how dealing with an AIDS patient at work or even at home does not mean that you will get infected. He tried to highlight how ignorance and false beliefs are adding fuel to the fire. He even told the woman that an AIDS patient could propose to her daughter and she wouldn't know ... that an AIDS patient could be her colleague at work and she would never know ... he had a lot of things to say but her was never given a chance ... the voice of ignorance, judgment and rigidity seems to be louder than the voice of reason, compassion and tolerance.

Had I the chance, I would have called and told the women to shut her hole! She is not God ... people like her are not God ... no human being has the right to judge another human being ... no human being has the right to discriminate against another human being ... and a part of me wondered how would she feel if she had Hepatitis and people treated her like a plague? This holier than thou shit just drives me through the roof.